~ There is a reason for you being here in this world. It is only in fully living your life, that you will find your true place ~ talkswitheve
Some may struggle to believe and accept it, but there is no doubt that you do matter. Consider this human cycle – you are born, get an education, find a job or career after graduation, work until you retire, then do something fulfilling until you get to the end of your life. Sounds straightforward and simple, doesn’t it?
Well, that is the bare bones of your existence. That is also kind of like your skeletal frame, and just like your skeleton, there is much more to you.
You are much more
You are much more than who you are right at this moment. There is much more to you that you have yet to discover. The thoughts you have about yourself may not be altogether true.
I am in awe of the individuals such as Bill Gates and Oprah Winfrey, who knew, without any doubt, who they wanted to be from a very early age. Everything they did, therefore, as they were growing up, was honing the skills to achieve their desired dream.
Then there are the individuals who persisted beyond their failures to achieve success. The list includes people such as Walt Disney and J.K. Rowling.
Knowing who you are, is the beginning of discovering who you were meant to be. Allow yourself to make mistakes and have failures, and take responsibility and ownership. It is in those moments that you find your true self – not who you have unconsciously become because of habits and learned behaviors.
You are a unique individual, you cannot, should not copy the actions and behaviors of others. Until you discover who you are, you may find you are in a perpetual state of unhappiness. Knowing how and where to begin your journey will be challenging.
As there is no one else anywhere in the world like you, your journey will be unique to you. However, everyone can start with the acceptance of the same statement – we all matter.
You do matter
What do I mean when I say that you do matter? Your existence has importance and value. In the same way that you place value on others in your life, such as parents and romantic partners, also place value on you.
What are you worth? To you? Remember all your struggles are merely obstacles to overcome. Obstacles are opportunities for growth. Personal growth.
So, never stop striving. Keep moving forward in your achievements, and maintain your high value of yourself.
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